As we step into October, a month dedicated to both domestic violence awareness and breast cancer awareness, I wanted to take a moment to talk about something very dear and close to my own heart.
These two issues have touched my life in ways I never could have imagined, and I know that I am not alone. So many other women out there—maybe even you—face struggles that can feel completely overwhelming and even crushing.
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Breaking the Silence: Understanding Domestic Violence
As a domestic violence survivor myself, I can tell you firsthand that abuse isn’t always physical. It can show its ugly head as something more emotional, mental, financial, or even in the form of social control. It can creep in very slowly and strip away your confidence, self-respect, and freedom.
For me, it felt like it was sucking the life right out of me. It’s so important to recognize those early signs, especially young teenagers who may not recognize the face of domestic violence, and reach out for help when it is needed.
If you or someone you love is facing abuse, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is just one phone call away at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Please don’t wait until it’s too late—it almost was for me.
Prioritizing Your Health: Breast Cancer Awareness
October also marks Breast Cancer Awareness Month, and for me, this is also deeply personal. My Aunt Marie lost her battle with breast cancer. (My mom and her sisters died early of other cancers). I still remember how women in my family were often too afraid to make those appointments and see their doctors (in part because of living in the Jim Crow days). It shattered my heart but also helped me realize the importance of early detection and regular checkups.
Many women like Angelina Jolie, Wanda Sykes, and Jane Fonda have been diagnosed with breast cancer and are thriving.
Today, with all the new technology and advancements we are blessed to have, we have a real shot at catching breast cancer early and saving more lives. But it really is on us to take those first steps.
Supporting Each Other: Strength Through Awareness
So, here I am asking you to commit yourself this month. Take care of your body, do those self-exams, and schedule those regular checkups. Your health is worth it.
This October, I also encourage you to pause and reflect. Whether it’s reaching out for help when it’s needed or finding ways to prioritize your health. Remember, there’s always support out there for you. You are so much stronger than you think, and you are never ever alone.
The best way to help victims is by speaking up and out. That’s why I always share my experience with domestic violence because I want people to know that yes, I was a victim, yes, I got out, and yes, you can too.
When we lift our voices together by spreading awareness about Domestic Violence and Breast Cancer we won’t just survive we will thrive!
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“Good things come to those who believe, better things come to those who are patient and the best things come to those who don’t give up.”
