Happy Thanksgiving!

by callkayla | Nov 22, 2017 | Blog

It’s that time of year again and I want to express my thankfulness outwardly for my health, your health, and our piece of mind.

I am so grateful for our desire, determination and willingness to be the best versions of ourselves. I am thankful for my family, my friends, new opportunities, stepping stones, growth, learning and teaching.

I have to confess, there’s something I need to tell you…

I AM THANKFUL FOR YOU!

Thank you for messaging me, sharing stories about how you’ve reclaimed the happiness in your life. Thank you for your encouragement. Thank you for allowing me to share my story with you. I am so grateful that, together, we ARE and WILL CONTINUE to live the life we so desire. 

We are FIT, we are FIERCE and we are FABULOUS!

I know we’ve all had our share of trials and tribulations, but that is a part of growth. Overcoming the struggles of everyday life, and the limitations that society places on us is a true testament to our resilience. Life has a tendency to throw everything at us at once. We find ourselves constantly on the go, focusing on what’s to come and how we’re going to execute our next plan. 

When things get hectic, I find thanksgiving to be the perfect time of year to slow down, pause and take some time for self-reflection. Here in our community, we’ve discussed a range of issues including: self-love, self-worth, becoming healthy, staying healthy, getting our sexy back, being risk takers, the power of our minds, the power behind focusing on and realizing our goals. As I look back at how far we’ve come, I can’t help but be proud of our progress.

We are a family, and family looks out for one another.

Thanksgiving is one of those holidays where we often go overboard with what we consider treats. Here’s a friendly thanksgiving reminder and challenge from my heart to yours: Please don’t lose sight of your goals and what you’ve already accomplished. Remember… We eat for the person we are tomorrow. It IS okay to treat ourselves. It is NOT okay to binge eat ourselves into a coma.

Here are 10 of my favorite thanksgiving tips:

1. Use smaller plates
2. Eat smaller portions 
3. Make healthy versions of your favorite dishes
4. Make it a family event to get in a quick and fun 20 min workout
5. Dance! Nothing like a good tune to get that heart rate fired up
6. Try not to eat too late at night. Give those carbs time to digest
7. Eat slowly. Give your brain a chance to register that your stomach is full
8. Drink water. Don’t confuse thirst for hunger. Aim for 1 glass of water per glass of alcohol
9. Eat breakfast and lunch. This can stop you from overeating at dinner
10. Have that desert. You can still try that savory dish! Focus instead on moderation

Our bodies WILL thank us the next day. The year is almost over, go out with a big bang. Stay true to your health. It should be your #1 priority. We must set examples for others to follow. That in itself is an outward expression of gratitude.

It’s always a pleasure to chat with you all and share. I get such a rewarding feeling hearing from y’all. Again, I thank you. After thanksgiving, let me know how you’ve spent your thanksgiving weekend, what you ate (I’m always open to recipes), if you’ll have them tasty leftovers for days, and how it felt saying no to overeating those delicious foods. 

Thank you. 

I appreciate you.

I’m so proud of your achievements. 

I’d love to know below… What will you be thankful for NEXT YEAR? 

Whatever it is, make a plan for it TODAY.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

5 Ways to Feel Sexy After 40

by callkayla | Nov 10, 2017 | Blog

Halloween’s come and gone, with kids everywhere dressing up, running around and experiencing pure joy. It’s a beautiful thing to see, whether it’s neighborhood children or your own kids and grandkids. But did you dress up? If you’re anywhere near my age (and I’m 65), probably not. Did you dress up when you were younger? If so, when did you stop – and why? Dressing up as someone or something else can be sexy for adults.

Many people seem to lose touch with their sexual selves as they get older, because they may no longer feel they are or can be sexy. Fortunately, that’s not true (hey, ask Betty White!). Here are five great ways to explore and enhance your sexual self at 40 – and for decades to come.

Try Roleplay

Now is the perfect time of year to play with the idea of roleplay. Whether you dress up as a sexy pirate or a naughty nurse, costumes can be liberating for both parties in a relationship, allowing you to explore new roles and have fun at the same time!

Take Care of Yourself

You may be asking yourself, “What does this have to do with feeling sexy after 40?” The answer is everything. Regardless of your body type, if you’re not taking care of yourself physically and emotionally, you’re probably not going to feel sexy and confident. I find this to always be true for myself. If I’m not eating right, not exercising and not tending myself, I don’t have the sexy confidence I need to have a healthy sexual relationship.

Try Blind Dates

Blind dates are a great idea – sexy, fun and exciting. I’m not talking about the usual blind date, where you meet someone you’ve actually never seen before, though those can be fun too. A few months ago, I got a text simply saying, “I’ve noticed you around, and I can’t take my eyes off of you. Would you like to go out to dinner on Friday?” It was my husband, who proceeded to treat the whole thing like a first date with a crush. It’s a refreshing way to reconnect, and it makes you even more grateful for the relationship you have.

Connect with People You Admire

Many of us are acutely aware of those around us – at work, at church, in our neighborhoods. Find a role model, someone who is your age or older, who seems to really own their confidence and sensuality. Make friends, talk with them, and learn more about how and why they refuses to give up their groove. Surrounding yourself with people you admire is always a great life philosophy – and who knows, maybe some of their joie de vivre will be contagious. Use the examples of other powerful, sensual, strong women to develop some affirmations about your own power and sexuality, and remind yourself of them daily.

Contact is Key

There are a lot of things that seem to stand in the way of a vibrant sex life – confidence, the demands of family, insecurities. One thing that is absolutely vital to help you and your partner maintain a healthy sexual relationship is pure human contact. We often take it for granted, but it feeds our spirit and strengthens our relationship. When contact with the one you love becomes a regular part of your lives, it will automatically lead to a stronger and more connected sexual relationship, regardless of age!

Connect with me today! 🙂

What are some of your favorite daily affirmations? Let me know below.